Tis the season. Oh my gosh, I love this time of year so much. And I know it also comes with a lot of pressure. I know you enjoy my video so much on the one
thing I learned that helped me become a millionaire. You check that out here. I wanted to continue on that theme because
so many of you are asking, “How do you actually focus? How do you actually minimize?” So, as we head into a brand new year, this
video is all about how to actually have your best year ever. And I’ve actually come up with an equation
that will help you create your best year in a very intentional way. Here’s the thing. Every single thing that you do is an opportunity
that has a cost, so I like to call it opportunity cost, and you probably heard that term before. But basically, if I decide that I want to
go hang out with my friends, the cost of that is that I’m taking time away from focusing
on the things that are true goals for me. Now, it depends on what you really want to
do in the next year. If your focus is on building really strong
relationships, then you should be doing that and you shouldn’t be spending as much time
on your business. But everybody’s goals are so unique. And I think at this time of year we’re so
used to everybody saying, “I got to get healthy. I got to build a million-dollar business,
I got to do all the same things.” But you really have to tap into what you actually
want. This video is not about goal setting. I actually want you to stop doing things,
and I want you to subtract things off your list of things to do because a lot of the
things that you probably would goal set around really don’t matter to you, and if things
don’t matter to you, you’re not actually going to do them because you don’t have the motivation
to take the actions on them. So, understanding first and foremost, what
is it that you truly want, and what is distracting you from getting that, and what are the goals
that you think you want but you don’t really want, and also would distract you from the
thing you actually want. Are you with me? That’s how I look at the opportunity cost
of it. Then the next thing is minimizing and focusing,
which can feel really, really difficult. But this comes back to keeping a log of your
time. Taking a look at how you spend your days and
your weeks and your months and what time are you missing out on spending time on things
that don’t really matter to you and are taking away from the goals. Because here’s the thing. I know you have big goals, I have big goals. You have things you want to achieve. But just adding goals on top of goals on top
of goals and just trying to set all the goals in the world, is actually a huge distraction
from achieving the thing that you really want. So, what can you minimize? What can you subtract from your life? What can you take away? Instead of goal-setting, let’s talk about
subtracting some stuff off the list of things to do. For me, I had my biggest year ever in my business. We doubled our revenue, we generate multiple
millions last year in the business. I am the healthiest I’ve ever been, which
I’m really proud of and the fittest, and I have the best relationships I’ve had really
in my life. How I did all of that was that I stopped doing
things. I stopped doing a lot of things, and I started
just getting help on things that I didn’t want to do or I knew weren’t really in my
genius zone because I know what’s in my genius zone and I know it helps me live my best life. Those are the things that I focus on. Anything else, ie, cooking, don’t really do
that anymore because I started outsourcing it and getting my meals prepped, as well as
cleaning. I hired a cleaner. Even if you can’t hire people to do this right
now, there are tasks you’re doing in your life that are taking you away from what you
really want to do. And those things are costing you your goals
and your dreams. So find a way. Ask your friends or your family for help. Ask people you know in your network. There are so many amazing groups even on Facebook
where you can reach out to find help on specific things. That’s a really good place to start. Figuring out what can you subtract from yourself
this year and what can you take away from your to do list this year, because that is
going to actually help you way more than setting a bunch of arbitrary goals. Now, the next thing is real relationships. The more that you can focus on actually connecting
with people in a deep way, as opposed to just through a camera, or just through social media,
or just through Instagram, the more magic opens up. We are all craving real relationships. So, make them a priority. Make your friends and your family and the
people who lift you up, a priority. You know what you can also subtract though? The people who don’t believe in you, the people
who don’t believe in your goals, the people who are toxic, and the people who aren’t doing
the things that you actually want to be doing and can’t support you in the things you want
to do because they’re jealous. Those are all people that you probably want
to get out of your circle as well. I guess my point is, the whole thing here
is about subtraction, not addition. I know that you’re probably being fed a lot
of messages right now to set goals and you should have all of these big, audacious things
you want to achieve next year, but I really think that’s a trap and we need to avoid it
because you know what you want. Now it’s about just minimizing anything that
takes away from that goal and from what you actually want to achieve. So, really important to understand that as
we head into the new year. The equation that I came up with for achieving
your goals, and when I looked back at this last year for me, which was so monumental
and just a really magical year. And to recreate that for myself and for you
is basically this. You want to look at what do you really, really,
really want. Spice girls, thank you. What do you really want? Plus, what are you willing to work for? Because you might be sitting there saying,
“I want to build a million-dollar business.” Well, that takes work, my friend. How hard are you willing to work for it and
how much can you subtract from your life and sacrifice from your life to actually be able
to do that? So, what you really want plus what are you
willing to work for minus any distractions from getting those things. That’s the equation for your best year ever. You can do it. I believe in you. I’ll be here every step of the way with you. Let me know what you want to see from me so
I can help you do the things that you want to do. But really, truly, and honestly, goal setting
is a farce. It’s all about subtraction, minimizing, and
focusing on the one thing that you can master that’s going to make you magnetic to do all
the things that you want to do in your life. I’m so excited for you. Let’s head into this new year strong and bossy
AF. Okay? I love you. If you like this, hit the like button, subscribe,
hit the bell to be notified for new videos every single week, and check out these videos
next. Thanks guys. Bye.

100 thoughts on “YOUR BEST YEAR EVER

  1. Thanks so much for watching! Let me know what you want to see from me, so I can help you do the things that you want to do 💪

  2. I so needed to hear that!
    Focus on what really matters! Subtract all the distractions!!! I’m going to Kill it in 2020 !!!
    YES definitely I Am!!!

  3. I really like this format of on-the-go speaking in the wild!
    This is a really interesting message and perspective on goal setting. Definitely going to look to lean out activities as I focus on what's important.

  4. With gratitude and in grace I thank you for putting out such value online and in your courses. Do you have a mentoring program for business owners?

  5. Solid advice Sunny. Happy New Year. Looking forward to riding the proverbial waves with you in 2020 seeing what the fresh new year brings!

  6. I love this. I found you a few months back and you have taught me a lot. Thank you for today’s video . Short and sweet and packed with a punch.

  7. Thanks for this video, Sunny! It was confirmation of the decision I made just yesterday- I’ve decided to SUBTRACT my video editing. It’s holding me back from really growing as a YT boss!!
    Less is more…I do believe that.

  8. Love it Sunny ☀️ thank you for sharing this today, I needed a boost of positive motivation that didn't feel overwhelming, like I need to do more to get what I want! Less is more 💋💋

  9. This message is so timely. I actually decided that my Word of the Year was going to be 'focus' — hearing you say to focus and minimize just reinforces that decision. 🙂 Good luck to everyone in 2020!

  10. Yes!! You are always dropping gems!! It is so huge to cut out everything that isn't helping us get to where we are going! And the biggest thing I've learned is to break it down into small steps (S.M.A.R.T goals) so we can do only what WE (YOU) want to do and achieve in life!! Love the content Sunny!
    I believe in you all!
    This is your time!

  11. 2019 was a good year for me! I finished my pre requisites, passed my teas, started my channel…I’m excited for 2020 😊

  12. A woman is born, with her bank account full. A man is born, with his bank account empty, and must earn every single dollar. Take for example, 'Tana mongeau', who just shows 'skin', talks about 'body parts', gets millions of subscribers, and millions of views, in just a few years, and has just won the YouTube awards. Unfortunately, I feel very envious. I have to work so hard (production) to get every single subscriber.

  13. love you and your energy! My goal is to work with you in the Accelerator course! I cannot wait to take my YOUTUBE channel to the next level, watch out 2020!!!

  14. I'm taking on a very big thing and hopefully your be there to take O heard that were all the know what am I talking about net father you say. That came out wrong but the father of net why not why not take take dot net Do you hear me I'm crazy that just came out of my <iframe width="268" height="148" src="" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen></iframe> That's insane and I'm doing this

  15. Thanks Sun, This time of year folka do make resoulotions. I am going to make minus resolotions. Make my list of what i will CUT out. See you next year friend. (I Will not CUT you) 🌴Aloha

  16. Where your FOCUS, goes your ENERGY GROWS.
    To have the best 2020 year, I strongly second that you channel your energy, time and resources on few things that will make the biggest difference in your life and business in 2020. Awesome video Sunny.
    Sending you all the positive energy to create your desired life in 2020.

  17. I definitely need to focus more on the important things! Want to kill it with my channel in 2020🙏 Improve my content and post more! Your videos inspire me a lot!💕

  18. You are a Boss!!! Standing out there in the cold and being able to focus and look good!!! Awesome job!!! Thanks so much!

  19. I read this book called "Active Choices" and it talks about putting the people you want on your bus. Surround yourself with multipliers but make sure they're in the right seat on the bus.

  20. By the way that number 8 is actually gonna be positive estefan negative think algebra there's a formula I don't know why people post on that dumb down but they gave you an 8 and that 8 is Is a successful number. And dam Depeche Mode I'm glad your luvin the And I'm going to concentrate on it more
    (((((( DM¥mode ))))))
    100% Depeche mode Thank You I was thinking I was going crazy not anymore. I have tears all over me .

  21. Sunny, Love your channel. I am just getting started. I am concerned with legal issues. What can you say or not say or can you reference other products without consent. Those kinds of requirements on Youtube. I would like to be able to give reviews. Do you have a template of how to inquire or let the recipient know. How do you ask to get paid for that? Thank you so much for all you do.

  22. “What do you really want + what are you willing to work for – distractions that take you away from those things = best year ever”

    Had to write it down and commit it to memory. Thanks, Sunny! My goal this year was “focus to achieve” so perfect timing on this video!

  23. Sunny
    Thank you for the truth you let me see

    Thank you for the facts from A to Z
    Thank you for the sunshine bouquet
    Thank you for the love you brought my way
    You gave to me your all and all
    And now I feel ten feet tall
    Sunny one so true, I love you

  24. Great advice! I'm totally guilty of spreading myself too thin doing so many things. I like it most of the time, but it can get overwhelming fast.

  25. I don't know about anyone else but 2020 is the year of the REBRAND!!! Reposting, reproducing, repurposing…..taking what's doing well and RUNNING WITH IT!!!

  26. Wow, wow, wow. This video content alot ambicious dreams. And I love it. So, if I was the true man who represented your live every where. Actually I would be able to do all those things you want to do for your life mon amour. Because, I beleive I love you my feamme europeen. Because you didn't gave me that chance. So, I don't want to lie to you to make you come to me. I mean it. I truely feel in love with you. You were my wife. You have something in your conversations who make me feel there is no dark fence in our relation. Today we are friends in a open communication. Who knows what's will happen tomorrow. Yes, I was dreamed to be with you for this season. But, for a reason to a other you wasn't presented. I felt pain about that. But, you need to know, your abscence cause more peine in my life you couldn't imaginate. You know sunny. I don't like predicting my feeling. The answers Is in what I received after you left. The memory, our touch and feeling; our conversations the pass times we have together. They are my testimony of our next decision. Buy, I can promise you one thing. Because you changed it already in differente way. If I want to get a story still. Only thing for sure, I'll make you happy and feel in love again with everything you expect from a husband. if you give me times to show you that. And not looking for answers before the devolopment of the subjects. Now, it's only my introduction you reading. The preface of your book. But, Only think I asking you today. Stay always the second part of my life. This is the help I asking you today. Be my assistant times share. you mean everything for me to make me feel life is beautiful again. Are you anderstand. I'm not in your life to abuse you. I'm in your life to looking who I really is. you are my life transformer. Please, not let's others manupulate you of me differently. Beleive, you don't have no true ideas about you boyfriend yet. What you want to know is inside of me. Not in my words. I'm not even know how to express them when you not close to me. My inspiration is in your presence. I become poetry, romantic singer, inspirational. All is because you. I can looking for who I'm. Without that, I can measure who I'm in life sunny. I love you alot. Because, I felt it…💋🥰💑

  27. Finishing the year right and starting the next year strong!
    Thank you for your tips Sunny! I really struggled and felt frustrated at times but I'm finally seeing a change in my channel!
    Slowly growing but getting where I want to be.
    Thank you. 2020 I'm ready to bring out my channel to the top!

  28. I concur. Great tips. But and equation must have an equality sign. What u really want+ what u can work for – distractions = success or goal achieved. Lol

  29. I have been focusing so much on manifestation of my dreams and then a brand new idea was planted in my mind by God out of the blue and now the goal is to start a small business and learn how to get my product inventions and ideas into a reality and in the market instead of sitting behind a desk making someone else’s business successful and it’s going to be such an amazing year!!!
    Massive abundance is coming and we are all going to have a blessed new year! 💛🙂👍🏻

  30. Life is going to he chaos in 2020 with us having our first kiddo! But our channel and our farm is set to explode, thanks to YOU!

  31. I have not celebrated Christmas since 2017, even though I haven't celebrated for a long time, my family still gave me gifts and nice things, It made me feel happy but at the same time very disappointed at myself knowing that I didn't fully have that Christmas feeling unlike my cousins who had a Christmas tree and everything, made me feel like shit knowing that people gave me things while I didn't give them anything….

  32. Very useful and motivating, however one correction here is that if a person is highly focused then it's not hard to make a million dollar or 10 million dollar business, only if a person is distracted all the time, it becomes really difficult to earn a living, forget million dollars.
    Again Sunny's content is amazing and very inspiring, I always look forward to honest, genuine future videos

  33. Thank you for all your valuable advice this year. It's taken me from 67 subs to 11k+ in 11 months. Your straightforward, honest and helpful attitude is what I keep coming back for. I'd love to see some content on how to make decisions, e.g. how to decide what to invest in (software, online tools) and when. How to decide how much and what content to put out. Making decisions when you don't really know the best way, that sort of thing.

  34. THANK YOU!!!
    What an amazing advice @sunnylenarduzzi so many of us try to do wayyyyy to many things that are not important to us! I WILL SHARE THIS WITH EVERYONE I KNOW!!!

  35. Puzzles started fitting this past year. Light bulbs turned ON in my head.
    Figuring out the online business world and actually achieving results, also growing on YT was my big goal, so 2020 will be MORE growth and continuing the path I"m on, doing MORE of what I love!

  36. True subtract toxic people that steal your energy to succeed, not to mention the amount of freeloading and getting my viewers. Here’s to 2020 full vision ahead 🌞🙌

  37. 2019 was probably was the worst year with the whole YouTube thing and all the fires in Australia and just everything that's gone on

  38. In a culture that pushes the “Hustle and Grind 24/7” mentality, I love the idea of minimizing our individual To-Do lists only to the things that matter to the individual. If it’s not in-line with our goals- ELIMINATE IT! This should be a VERY good thing for everyone’s mental health as we enter a new decade. And this video was made 10x cuter with the mittens!! Sunny, it was hard to take you completely seriously as you were waving your hands around in those thick mittens 😆. LOVE this video 💝

  39. Yes! I've experienced in my own life that when you focus on That One Thing, everything starts to realign. You lose some (unnecessary) things, but you also gain so much. Thank you, Sunny, for spreading this to so many people. Have an amazing 2020!

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