and are you refreshed now what hi you seem to be because I knew it and then I still was surprised we've offered a statement for a long long time how the universe will surprise and delight you and Esther used to wonder how that could be because she would say if I put everything in my vortex then I can see how it would be delightful but why would it be surprising if I put it there but it's the timing of things yes okay I thought of so many questions but they seemed so out of place because nothing is okay oh wait that one is so we've been talking about so many different interesting topics today that what stood out to me we've been talking principles and laws and processes so some nitty gritty is good yeah yeah so if I I know I attract everything to myself yeah and I would love to attract something else and some things in my life and I'm not sure what do you think you've been asking for a while yes and do you think there's a difference between what you're asking for and what you've currently got yes and which of those two subjects do you think you think more about what you're asking for or what you've got when something happens I can only think about what seems to be happening in that moment well that's not a true statement because you could think otherwise but maybe what you're saying is since that the momentum get going then I really don't have any trol but is there a point in which you have more control over whether you're thinking about what you want rather than what is we really meant it earlier when we said that once you've asked if you could just not think about it again it would come about and it's your incessant thinking about it again from your place of not having it that prevents it from happening so want to talk about some specifics that we can guide yeah one of the things I seem to be happy a lot and and when I'm happy and and I had so many epiphanies I've been listening to all of these audio tips we have you and so many epiphanies and it feels so good but then I have this voice coming up here it's well I think I'm on the that my mother that's your mother [Laughter] but it's so sudden that I cannot see where but you see this is the thing that we want you understand it's not sudden you have vibrations going on that you weren't owning up to for years we've been saying that there's two ways of knowing what your vibrational content is one is by how you feel and the other is by how it plays out so if you wait until it's manifest a depth post manifestation or if you pay attention to the way you feel that's pre manifestation 'el and if it's something that you want to be different then catching it before it manifests is always easier than catching it after it manifests it doesn't matter because you can change anything so if it feels like it's sneaking up on you it just means you're not aware which usually means you don't care enough about feeling good sometimes Esther says she and her daughter have this game they play with each other quite often would I rather be right or would I rather feel good and both of them would rather be right you'd rather feel good but when you're human and feeling in competition about different things and sometimes you've practiced and so it feels sort of normal to you to think the thoughts that don't feel so good but once you've had a conversation like we've had here today and once you begin meditating and once you understand what feeling good really means and what not feeling good really means then you have more creative control but really what you are bringing to the conversation is a really important thing and that is if you're not aware of what you're doing vibrationally and so momentum is gaining momentum something very wrong with that sentence then you really are sort of out of control but if you've been carrying more and more about feeling good so you've been feeling good more and more so you feel the dissatisfaction in the early subtle stages when you can pull it back then as you are on that more creative edge where you have more control then you have more control okay so that's why you say you have hot buttons or you have issues those issues are hot buttons are those things you haven't tended to so they're just lurking there ready to surprise and delight you at any turn like I called them triggers like getting a text from this I have a companion and one of my businesses and I consider him to be a bully he's not nice well then he can't be okay because I think he can't be because that's what you've decided that's what you've practiced that's what you believe that's what's active in your vibration and so unless he's somewhere in this room learning how to tune in and be different than you are calling from him in other words he could be one of the one who's connected is more powerful than a million who aren't so he could be tuned in and not letting your belief about him evoke behavior from him but have you ever made a list of positive aspects about him list of positive aspects we have an assignment for you we never offer assignments you are our very first one just take a small notebook and write this person's name at the top or give him a new name it might make you think nicer of him the person formerly known as and not from a place of trying too hard but just softly and generally make a list of his positive aspects and then read it over a time or two before you see him next or before you interact with him next and watch what happens to the way he shows himself – you want to start now okay so he that hard to find her he's smart he has the capacity to teach about business because he has been in successful businesses Robert even now you're sort of hedging just a little bit you're saying he could be something he isn't if he were just different he would be perfect sometimes you have to go general for instance you could say because he stirs this in me he must be important to my unfolding and I know I'm going to benefit by something that's going on here and I thank him for that and I believe he genuinely means well I think if he were connected to his inner being he would generally mean well and the fact that he must not be must mean he's got some pressures on himself now you're giving him the benefit of the doubt which is really not like a list of positive aspects but it sure feels better to you don't say things you don't mean because that just makes you defensive against your own statements say things that you do mean that feel good to you when you make them I would like to get along with him I do believe that he has knowledge that I would benefit from I appreciate his sort of sticking to what he means maybe he was bullied and that's where he learned it more benefit of the doubt than positive aspects but baby steps yes I like the idea of co-creating I don't want to be the only one in this world I know that I benefit from each and every person I interact with when something feels strong to me I know that there are strong reasons for it I have always gained the most from those who have been a little bit challenging I'm looking forward to the relief I feel when I release my resistance about this person I don't want to try to make him the one that has to do all of the work when I know that I'm the only one who really can he could end up being my best friend or my greatest advantage he's got my attention and he's giving me reason to focus and I intend to win this one I intend to find success which means feel good about this and if were not for him being in my life I wouldn't have it's opportunity to own what I'm offering vibrationally and then adjusted to what I want he's making me acknowledge then I'm offering vibrational things in response sort of like in a knee-jerk response in which case I have no control when what I really want to do is always be in control of what I'm offering thank you so much for not kissing up to me thank you for not being one of those who tries to replace my inner being and is sort of successful at it because I look to them for the happy feelings rather than to my inner being just maybe one of the most significant relationships I will ever have I'm so happy to have this relationship that ought to do it he will be different from now on with you and because you were open your vibration has been allowed by you to rise during this conversation you're in complete vibrational accord with your inner being there was no assertion here you drew all of this forward into your experience there has been a vibrational shift within you that you will now witness what that means and from now on you'll know what to do with every person you know


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